Where Does the Sex Go?

The sudden, or gradual, decline in frequency and intensity of sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship, can wound deeply. Leaving the man feeling frustration, hurt, rejection, abandonement and disconnection. In his aloneness, he yearns to recapture the passionate and intimate closeness they once shared together.

Not understanding what has happened, or what has changed, he pursues her to find out. It's a problem he wants to fix and he wants to understand more, so he can fix the problem.

The more he asks her, the further away she moves.

He loves her. He's made a life-long commitment to being with her. He wants to make it work and laying beside her night after night, feeling her warmth next to him, listening to her breathing, being aware of her heat, he is reminded over and over, every single night, that the woman he wants most in the world and he has chosen her to commit his life to.

She, does not want him in the same way.

He's tried everything and then some more, and nothing has worked. She doesn't want to talk about it. She doesn't want to deal with it. The distance grows greater

So...what to do?

Go see a couples therapist or counsellor?

If you can convince her to go, and you both feel safe, heard and understood by the therapist, the results may not be what you expect. And you wont see any change from $1,000 for three or four sessions.

What I'm offering here is a solution that you can refer back to repeatedly. A method that can revolutionise your relationships with women. Providing a deeper understanding of women, and of yourself, so you can better navigate the often hostile world of being in relationship with, and loving, your woman with more skills, greater presence and greater strategic understanding.